Monday, 3 September 2012

                                                       A MUST READ FOR ALL LADIES                                                     I read  a touching, pathetic experience on one a blog, so i thought i should share it with you guys, it's about the horrifying experience of 8 girls in the hand of 8 devilish men, its a must read for all ladies out there.

"Hi, I am Tonia (not real name), a girl who has fears, beliefs, reservations and just your regular typical Nigerian girl. This past few weeks has been one hell of a game for me. I have really been unsettled and I thought I share this story with you.

"When Cynthia (the lady killed in the hotel room in Festac, Lagos) surfaced on the internet and various news media, I was scared and it brought back a whole lot of memories to me and also served as and eye opener. Many people castigated and criticised Cynthia (may her
gentle soul rest in peace), but my point is, it could have been anybody, anybody at all.

"We have met people through various social media. Some have ended up well, some have not but with painful memories. To cut the long story short, let me kindly share with you my encounter with social media especially the very popular Blackberry Messenger (BBM).

"I am a graduate and currently serving in Kaduna. I could have runced it, but I needed somewhere to clear my head and forget about my ugly encounter. Here is my story.

"I happened to have a married man as a contact on my BBM. He had been asking me out for over six months and I refused to date him. As time went on, he invited me clubbing with him when his wife was outside the country, and I went with him all night. We spent most of the night at Swe bar, Lagos.

"I also met his clique of friends, married as well with their various mistresses. We had 'mad' fun. After all the clubbing and drinking, he lodged me in a hotel somewhere in Obalende. I felt sort of safe with him. We did not have sex, but he made sweet love to me and touched me in places I had never ever imagined.

"He kissed me passionately but guess what? He did not have sex with me. We did all sorts but there was no penetration. So, to an extent, I trusted he was a good person to be around with. I did not know that it was all part of the plan.

"He gave me N10,000 and put me in a cab to go home the next morning. We kept talking and chatting and sending naked pictures to each other and he told me naughty things of how he wanted to whisper things in my ear, I blushed. We didn't see for two weeks and that was because his wife just came back from Turkey.

"One faithful evening, he pinged me that he was organising a beach party/boat cruise and that he would love for me to be his date and that he wanted to open a BBM chat, as a medium for his friends and my friends to interact. I was excited about it, I just wanted to have fun. I was able to get five of my very hot friends.

"The BBM group opened and we got chatting. I also realise that majority of them were married and working in reputable firms. It was fun and we didn't mind if they were married, we just wanted to have fun, as well as some other girls apart from my friends in the group.

"We chatted exclusively, sent pictures to the BBM group to introduce ourselves, and we had opened group conversations pending the beach party. And as excited as we were, we went shoping for nice sexy beach wears.

"The D-day finally came, we all assembled at the Lagos Island Boat Club. I was wowed because it was a high class party. We were cruising in a boat loaded with goodies drinks and hot babes, and as well 'MARRIED MEN'. I did not care, I just said in my mind that I would not roll with married men anymore after this, that for now, all I wanted to do was to catch some fun. After all, I wasn't paying bills.

"We got there, it was a private beach resort. Most of the beach facilities I got to see there were owned by multinational companies. We got out of the boat, and went to where we were partying. It was a duplex made with wood. It was a very nice setting.

"I felt comfortable because it even had a fence around it separating it from other beach houses around. So, there was privacy and of course bouncers (heavy looking guys) guarding the place. I said to myself, this must be heaven, I must be dreaming.

"Anyways, we felt free with each other because we had been chatting. It was 5:30pm and the party just started. We had drinks flowing from the private bar tender which happens to be owned by one of the men in the group. Reality struck when I realised that I was feeling dizzy and feeling really funny and light headed. Not only me, but other girls around me too noticed there was something strange about it.

"I was also feeling HORNY as hell! I had been drugged. They monitored us and when they knew the drug had really gone deep into our system, they moved us up into the main beach house. I could still see faces, but was too weak and horny to react.

"Mr B, the man who took me clubbing, carried me in his hands like a sacrifice and put me down on the floor just as other men also did with their girls. We were eight in numbers; 8 girls, 8 guys, and they all stripped us down and had sex with us.

"I enjoyed it a bit because I was horny. It was a mixed feeling because I cried, I moaned, but I did not know how many times he came into me. He pounded me hard. I was dizzy, but he grabbed me with force. All I could notice was the wedding ring on his finger. I thought of how wicked and miserable some married can be. How inhuman and heartless they could be.

"All of them took turns in switching partners and slept with all of us. I passed out. That was the last thing I could remember. I felt water poured on me. I noticed all the other girls around me too were half naked and some stark naked.

"We spent the night at the beach, but the men were no where to be found. I looked round me and all I could see was packs of used condoms. I ran to pick my cloths and possibly raise an alarm. I got dressed, found my phone with an envelope. It contained N16,000 and a note asking us to take N2000 each for transport. Tears of anger and rage filled my eyes and the girls around me as well.

"We were drugged and used like tissue paper. I grabbed my phone and noticed a ping came in. I checked my phone and I noticed the BBM group had been deleted, and a message via BBM from MR B came in. He threatened me that if I say a word to anyone, I would regret it.

"I told him he was a bastard, and he said try it. A picture came in, several pictures. In fact, they were pictures of us being naked on the floor. Pictures of the humiliating us but they blurred the faces of the men. In total, I got 20 pictures. I was not myself for a month.

"I went back to school, I had no one to talk to. The rest of the semester was hell for me. My CGPA dropped drastically. It was the worst out of the worst result I ever had.

"Till today, my friends and I have not discussed this with anyone, but all I could do when I heard of Cynthia's story was to narrate my own ordeal anonymously and spread the news, the word, and pray they see it and changed their ways.

"I am now born again. I have given my life to Christ. I fear men so much that I cannot even move close to them. I still have nightmares, but with time, God will strengthen me and I will move on. My advice to single ladies out there is, do not be desperate for fun. Pray to God to open your eyes of understanding, and pray hard. He who kneels before God will stand before kings and queens.

"To all married women, pray hard to God to intervene in your marriages and turn your husbands from bad habits to and bad friends. As for me, I do not think I ever want to get married or date a man again. That chapter has been closed for good in my life.

Please, do not ignore my mail. Please post it. There are a lot of things we ladies need to learn including you. Please post it on your blog and save a soul. It could be your friend, sister, cousin, neighbour.

"God bless you as you pass it on. To all readers, I do not care if you insult me or rain abuses at me. My job is to share this encounter with you and save you from any mishap. God bless you all. Amen."

72 comments:

  1. Am so speechless. My dearest the Lord alone will console you,amen.

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  2. I have read this story before and am ganna say what I said in d other blog, when you look for fun excessively then you will get excess fun and remember excess is not good for consumption.
    Am not ganna say that's serve you right what am ganna say his let moderation be your watchword in whatever you do and where is your head have you forgotten he is maried and you wish to be married too one day? Remember what you give is what you get.
    A word is enough for the wise.

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    1. U should have asked d girl what she was doing with a married man. She wants to have fun and is sending nude pictures, making love with a married man. If d man was d girls husband and another insane girl is messing up with him how would d girl feel. She's calling men wicked while she's a SHE-DEVIL,IRRESPONSIBLE and stupid. I wonder if she's really born again.

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    2. Both parties are at fault: the men for breaking their solemn vows of marriage and the women for indulging in activites with married men. I just pray that all parties involved seek God's forgiveness and that their souls are only condemned by those who are sin-less. Amen.

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    3. Pls stop d criticism. This could happen to anyone. Thr are tyms when u just want to do sme things for the fun of it without thinking.....even Jesus was tempted by the devil. Let u without sin cast the first stone. May God deliver us frm such....Amen.

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    4. You can't put all the blame on her for what happened, atleast she learnt her lessons d hard way, she's broadcasting her experience to enlighten the novice in such issues, atleast people will know the kind of fun to seek and where to seek for such fun... May God help us... Peace.

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  3. "8 girls in the hand of 8 devilish men"

    So, girls that go after the husbands of married women are SAINTS huh...?

    They reaped what they sowed jareee

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  4. I know it may take a long time for you to get over the nightmares but I know the Lord will erase that part of ur experience of your memory in Jesus name. Life must continue for good, don't conclude that you will not get married, please for the sake of your parent get married and have your own family.

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  5. Its a sad story no doubt but I guess its hightime girls need to realize been married is a status nt a yardstick for morality.

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  6. Really ladies wat were those girls expecting? Is it dat those girls never heard dat married men were off limits or wat goes around comz around!! M sowee I dnt feel nofin of pity for dem,cos dey forgot their morals and dammed d consquences. Ladies kindly meditate on dz sayings: Wat will it profit a man to gain d world n lose his sole, All is vanity,All that glitters isn't gold. And for ladies who still date married men cos its rossy,expect an unwanted visitor lk kamar wen ur married.

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    1. God will help us all, but i still blve that all this kind of shit can only be stopped by our girls thru the grace of God. You could see clearly that someone is married and you still went ahead to start a relationship with that man, it is unfair, fine i know it is not easy especially when these men have what you need but always allow your conscience to work with you. I also still blve that this kind of thing can still happen even if those guys were not married, it is just a wicked act but for those who blve that they are free enuff to do whatever they want even if sinful and the consequence and repercussion harmful or dangerous. God will help us all and bless us and also have mercy upon us all, amen

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  7. Its funny how society blames the woman quick. What about the damn man?? He was married and yet he still proceeded to stem out his marriage and be with this woman.. What about the vows he took? I guess that does not mean shit in this case. As for the girl not saying what she did was good but conditions drive most people to do things they won't do on a normal day... Who dem put sugar for mouth wey no lick am..

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    1. Does the man force the woman to go down with him?? stop being offensive on men... whatsoever seed you sow.. thats what u ll reap.. it's a principle in this life

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    2. Your excuses are baseless. Now, if your child does something wrong and another child does beats up your kid badly, does that mean you won't correct your child. Nobody will force your mouth and put sugar inside, why won't you bit the hand. Simply put, its the same condition that drive gals to sell themselves cheat, the same push these gals. fun and money. Simple. Face it. Men are mean, women are too. you want to collect another man's money and spend his time, money that he should be using on his children and wife. You know what that is, stealing in style.

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  8. It rather unfortunate to say the least. I am a married man and i may not call myself an angel but i cannot force myself on a woman against her will. I would also tell all young girls no to be carried away by worldly things. Money, riding in a luxury car, flying in a private jet etc. Get a young guy and grow with him. Do not have the mindset that you want to groove and have mad fun. Thank God for yur life that you have given you soul to Christ

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  9. The issue here is not the fact that the dudes are married that anyone should dwell on. The dudes committed crimes they should be punished for. Sure you should not hang with people you hardly know,married or otherwise, that still does not make gang rape legal. So STFU about the married bit,no one gives a fuck.

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    1. my dear, stop babbling... it takes two to tango... the s
      'so called evil men" didn't force the women. the women willingly gave themselves out... curiousity kills the cat. the ladies knew they were married, yet they went after them. Why?

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  10. Its such a terrible story. But life is a teacher and without experiences no lesson will be learnt.

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    1. Omo if na by experience, all of us for be teachers in Harvard! Pray these gals dont repeat it.

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  11. There's something about this story I don't get; were the girls thinking that those married men wouldn't attempt to have sex with them after the drinking, boat riding and so much money spent as well? They ought to have seen the sex thing coming. Maybe wat they didn't expect that happened was dos guys doing it in turns and them being unconscious throughout the process. We ought to be careful the kinda men we associate wit even the single guys cos you can get such humiliation from them too. My dear it's good you shared ur experience and I'm happy you've changed ur ways. But pls you need to reconsider the marriage thing, you can't be single for the rest of ur life you know.....it's not even healthy!!!

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  12. What happened to this girl is not in my opinion anything new.
    This story has it's reverse side and should be treated as a lesson for all. Male and female.
    Cos many cases have bin reported of ladies drugging men and carting away with valuables.
    Lesson: when you seak pleasure (males or females), know that it comes with potential dangers.
    No one should make devils out of those men bcos the story could have bin the reverse, with one of the married men telling us how they were dealt a huge blow by a group of ladies who they sought a fun-filled boat cruise and beach treat with.
    Make everybody draw Dem self 4 ear!!!

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    1. wat do u mean no one should make devils outa those men............. they are devils simple #shikena... each one of them raping 8 girls them taking the pictures to blackmail them....... criminals... giving manhood a bad name.....rape under any circumstance is evil.....

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  13. 8 gals and 8 devilish men??? It should be 8 prostitute and 8 randy men. I see ladies and hear a lot of dirty stories they tell about men. Why go after a marry man if not bcos of greed and lack of contentment? I am sure those ladies wld have boyfriends. Yet they wanna eat their cake and still have it. I am not sorry for u at all. U shall reap what u sow. As for those men, think of ur daughters oo...

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  14. Very sad story but I'm glad you gave your life to Christ. Only him can give you a clean slate. We have all done stupid things in our past lives. Indulged in excesses we had no rights to, let him that is blameless cast the first stone. Do not judge someone because they sin differently from you. My dear, just look to God for deliverance from the mistakes of your past. #thatisall

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  15. She and her friends are lucky to be alive.

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    1. my bro, u re right.. they are simply greedy and stupid... going after married men. and later blaming and calling those men names

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    2. yes oooooo they re really lucky......you don't judge people with there look, cos some men re more dangerous than satan itself. i just pray this will serve as lesson to other ladies out there running after married men when they ve their own boyfriend.

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  16. You reap what you sow!!!! Yeye galz dating married men.......

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  17. I don't believe that the men are to be blamed, according to what she said she knew at the first time that he was married and she still went ahead and played half love with him. OK the second time she thought that the second experience will be greater and she went with her friend. The issue here is that so many women from Eve thought that after shaking hands with devil they will still go free. Eve tried it and ended up in death, will crying now?. Locking up your heart not to get married is just locking your self in prison for life, you did wrong and you have repented, get involved in relationship and get married and stop living in emotional prison.

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  18. should i say it serves them right, in the first place why should you go out with a married man, if you were his wife how would you feel? he let you go the first time and you think he gonna let you off the hook. he invited you again and like a goat that you are you still went to the slaughter slab. i blame both parties, the men were horny and you and your friends where craving for mad fun. that's a typical orgy! (mad fun that you sort)

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  19. What those men did was to use you and some of your friends as an escape goat. This this a serious warning to young single ladies who like and enjoy married men. Do you know that HIV organization released a record and it said that 8 out of 10 single ladies that you see is positive and the reason is that most single girls love dating and having sex with married men, because they thought that they know how to care. shocking?

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  20. Thank God their life have been spared, good lesson for others ladies that chase men for money.

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  21. Wow!Thanks be to God,ROMANS 8:1 There is therefore now no condemnation to them who are in Christ Jesus....
    So pls continue in Gods words day and nite.pray all the time,and trust God,let the sweet holyspirit divine comfort u in jesus name.u didn't die because God still has a purpose for ur live cos trust me if nt u would hv died.God bless u

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  22. Frankly,that serves u right. You lodge in a hotel,kissing and doing all sorts of things with a married man,we are humans for God sake,did u actually think he didn't want to get down with you? Yet you took the money. And am very sure there will be some other part of the story that is not included here. Ladies should learn that Men don't give you gifts because you're cute,they do 'cos they want something in return.

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  23. Its such a shame that this has to happen. But, then we just need to set our priorities right. We just need to be extremely cautious with the way we use the social media.

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  24. What a cruel World! It would have been modest and honourable for these men to have stuck to their guns rather than these humiliating acts. I pity all the victims of these heinous acts but, learning to live a moral life again would be better for them.Civilization has its pros and cons too which I believe this was an adverse part. May GOD heal our lands from these ungodly acts......

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  25. Wow!thank God you are now in Christ so u are a new creature. Not here to condemn but to set the table straigth. Desisting from relationship is unwise cos if u believe your sins has been forgiven then you have to move on. Thank God you were not slaughtered and used for rituals. For the 8 ladies... Greed and unmerited fun with a "married" stranger led you to what u saw. For the men... That was babaric an inhumane. Also it is rape cos they were druged unknowingly. We'll continue to pray for this country and that the holyspirit should take over the heart of those yet to be saved. God bless

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  26. Olayinka i can see u re still a child, anyway i dont blame you. dear girls--- lets just be careful, its like d love guys ve got for us these days is just like d one d owner has got for its "fowl" my friend am sorry about ur experience and Cynthia's-- we all ve gone close to such at a time or d other, all we had was d grace of God. Cheers!!!!

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  27. I See a lot of intelligent comments and quite a number of shameful and really 'daft' comments. Nigerians wake up!
    1. A prostitute should not be raped. No matter the situation
    2. Any human being should not be raped; man, woman, child. Even if the human asked for it.
    3. In this Lagos state, I know a lot of women willing to be paid for a massive orgy. What's with this cheap nonsense! Consent is all I see missing from this sick puzzle.
    4. This lady should expose the charlatans, what has she got to loose? Nudes are on the net every day, people forget these things easily. It will aid their prosecution and serve as evidence in the court of law.
    5. Anyone who opens his or her mouth to condemn this lady, has opened him/herself to a similar condemnation and has exposed him/herself to the forces that cause for such evil things to happen to him/herself. Period!

    Finally if this story is true (it sounds sensational), then babes, you are in the safest and best of hands- God. Continue to entrust your life in His hands and you will be fantastic.

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  28. fantastic story telling this is. the person who wrote this will make a good carrer out of noveling. thumbs up

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  29. With so much respect to the victim of this story, I will like to buttress that the writer seem to be promoting homosexuality through her story..I agree that the men are wrong, it is a criminal offence to rape a whore not to talk of a normal youth trying to catch fun out of exorbirance..but despite the ugly act of this men, men should not be judged in a whole, we have stories of ladies doing worst things in our society and that should not presume that all ladies are badh...I am nt okay with the writer statement of not having anytin to do with men, it is her decision qnd she has a right to decide for hersef but this decision should not be public because it will def have an effect on the readers

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  30. Students(females) of nowadays have made this kind of life common amongst themselves,a girl will be proud and looking forward to cheat on her guy for material things like a Bold 5.the term prostitution has been modified to runs and now adventure. In this era of HIV the amount of sex going down is unimaginable, the idea of social media is just for sex,back in the days we wrote penpals letters just to communicate,nowadays chatting is not enough,people just want to meet and have random sex. Her story is just her confession,millions of 9ja girls each have a story to tell,I bet 2 out of every 3 girls have experienced this kind of rape.

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  31. lovely experience girl but this still does not pass any message across to the ladies out there who always want to go for anything that glints, i really don't have much to say here but i will say Nigeria girls needs to wise up, cos they are really so fake and cheap and that's why they always fall for anything that looks like money, even if the guy don't even have up to 50k in his account as long as he has a big Tommy and look rich physically and know how to build massion with his mouth then the girl is ready to leave her good relationship and run after such guy girl and at the end when the guy must have finished with her then she comes out to say men are wicked and all that bullshit, lol...... well what ever the girls see or face today is a music which they played for their self so they have no other option than to dance to the rhythm of the music.

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  32. This is a pathetic story. He who is without sin should cast the first stone. We are all guilty of one crime or the other and before God sin is sin! Those men are animals and we should not have such animals roaming the streets of our society. These type of men are the kind who molest their nieces, daughters and step daughters in the dark. There is no smoke without fire. I pity their wives because they must be proud they have men as husbands not knowing they have vicious animals living with them! No circumstances warrants a man to have carnal knowlegde of a woman without her consent. And u men out there who supported the dastardly acts of those men are animals urselves and for women who blamed the girl remember u re a woman also, u hve a sister, daughter etc and cannot protect her 100% also rem dat u can be raped even by the most trusting boyfrnd or husband of urs! And besides do u know the kind of man u will marry? I bet the wives of these men will swear on their lives that their husbands cannot perform such acts!pls help stop the de humanization of women!!!

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  33. Gush! I Nigerians will never seize τ̅☺ amaze me... ƫƕɑ̤̥̈̊†̥ girl ψåڪ even stupid enough τ̅☺ say α̲̅πϑ i quote

    "I enjoyed it a bit because I was horny." Its either you enjoyed it or you don't there's no bit about it :p,

    "I told him he was a bastard, and he said try it... A picture came in, several pictures. In fact, they were pictures of us being naked on the floor. Pictures of the humiliating us but they blurred the faces of the men. In total, I got 20 pictures..." Ƒø̲̣̣я̅ crying out load, is 20pics Oo°˚˚˚°Ӻ you and c∕̴Ɩ naked man with blurred face not enough τ̅☺ accuse and convict τ̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ man Oo°˚˚˚°Ӻ rape, blackmail and scandal???

    "I went back to school, I had no one to talk to..." When you are doing something evil τ̅☺ others α̲̅πϑ something bad happened τ̅☺ you, that ȋ̝̊̅ڪ what you get, NO ONE TO TALK Τ̅☺.

    "Till today, my friends and I have not discussed this with anyone, but all I could do when I heard of Cynthia's story was to narrate my own ordeal anonymously and spread the news, the word, and pray they see it and changed their ways" you've not told anybody then how τ̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ hell did i heard about it, Nigerians are such terrible liars...

    And τ̅☺ τ̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ asshole that wrote τ̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ blog, you are τ̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ biggest i've ever seen ĩ̷̊ñ τ̅ђε̲̣̣̣̥ world. Instead Oo°˚˚˚°Ӻ you τ̅☺ advice this foolish α̲̅πϑ wicked girl τ̅☺ sue up those motherfuckers cos they cant α̲̅πϑ Ċά̲̣̣̣̥N̶̲̥̅̊ never deny their body ĩ̷̊ñ c∕̴Ɩ pix you are here writing this stupid blog about warning other girls... We've heard worst stories α̲̅πϑ nobody made c∕̴Ɩ deal outta it, plz α̲̅πϑ plz, D̶̲̥̅̊☺Ŋ'† ever send ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ or redirect ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ τ̅☺ this Ƙℓ̊ŋƉǻ nonsense again... Av c∕̴Ɩ good D̶̲̥̅̊ɑ̤̥̈̊Ɣ.

    And τ̅☺ all Oo°˚˚˚°Ӻ you that felt pity Ƒø̲̣̣я̅ this slut, ƫƕɑ̤̥̈̊†̥ ȋ̝̊̅ڪ if sђє existed, i despise you all

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    1. Nailed wat? All u have said makes not much sense.....u should go and learn better English by the way! Vulgar vulgar vulgar

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  34. This is a Very sad story but thank (God) none of y'all lost ur breath..this Men culd be worse than this and you girls are very lucky that they didn't take any part of your body for ritual...didn't you realise Nothin goes for nothin? Well most people don't just do good things to pleas people on a regular basis Something must be involved, we all know broke girls do bad things and most of d reasons 4 dem to portray such act is just to enable dem buy blackberry phones Brazilian human hair,iphone and so on, practising human traffic and prostituting knowingly and unknowingly forgotten that they culd contact different kind of diseases from this married and unmarried men out there looking for beautiful nymphets to ruin Their life with the little or huge amount of money they can offer to convince them and desame girls will go round spreading all sorts of disease to the young boyz they re in love wit and spending money on them and got them thinking it is their time to shine while it is not,Nobody holy pass o,am just saying pls wait for your time and work hard bcos hard work pays off...My advice for you is to move on with your life and get married and take care of ur own family..

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  35. the ladies got what they deserved while karma will surely catch up with the men

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  36. Name is Jola. I agree with some of you and with some of you, I do not.
    Our parents taught us not to collect sweet from strangers. If you cannot learn from that, bare the consequences of have a bad teeth. It is true that men sometimes can be heartless. But our parents also said, when you visit your uncle and they give you food, reject the food. If they give you money, reject the money. I am sure most parents teach that to their kids.
    The girl who narrated this story was given BB Pin from a married man, she took it. Chatted with him and gave him green light till they were comfortable enough to go clubbing. She knew he was married and still she travelled to visit him and went only as far away from sex leaving only penetration. (Please!) Sex is sex (Penetration or not) leave the facts for reality. She collect money after that, (please that part is for prostitutes only) calling it transportation. Who cares if you use the money to buy pant and bra? The reality is; there is nothing like Runs Girl and Asahwo, you get paid for sex or following a man home, you guys made out and he pays you (he is not your boyfriend oh, not your lover), all of you are one thing “Prostitutes” Simple as ABC.

    Now that said, our victim here went home, loved the event of her last visit and the money too. She wants more. Why want more money and fun and not let the man too want more. (Some women can be selfish.) Now when a man is nice to you, you call him maga, he is mumuishly in love with you, you call him fool. Common, facts and reality are two harsh things in life that our parents told us to face. Why not face it now.

    Truth is this, those men were wicked, and those girls were careless. Your friend invites you to chat with married men, men you don’t know but you know they are married. You still went ahead to party in the beach with them. Have you not seen movies, beach party ends up similarly. You want to spend and not work. Life is bitch, yes but that bitch sef requires you to work before you get paid. A child that does not read can still be intelligent, but he can’t be as a child that is intelligent and reads.

    If you want the world, be ready to lose your soul. Simple. You can’t gain and win. You gain only when you have gone through the stress and pain.

    These men still gave you money to return and they didn’t hurt you. Abeg, them too try. The other gal, they took her money and killed her. You were not used, you just served for what you were paid. Face it, these are the facts:
    1. You don’t go to a bank and buy shares and not get dividend. You won’t be happy with that bank.
    2. You can’t go to the farm and plant and the seeds do not grow, you won’t be happy too.
    3. You can’t go to a restaurant and eat all you want and walk out free. If you don’t pay, they will beat you, injure you, and if care is not taken, kill you. Will you call them heartless?
    They only drugged you to get what you should have given them freely after all the drinking and spending of their money.

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  37. They said 8ladies and 8devilish men...interestin...
    To me, all see is " 8 home wreckers and 8 randy adulterers " picture if the 8 girls were not raped and d 8 men's wives caught them with their husbands, who will be d devil then?...
    They knw they are married men buh they still went out with dem#big smiles
    Wht's d end point of married men hangin out with single ladies?(Ans =SEX) how the sex now occur is left for d 2parties to decide....
    All i will say is "BIGGER DEVILS BULLY SMALLER DEVIL"#laughing#shikena#gbam

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  38. They said 8ladies and 8devilish men...interestin...
    To me, all i see is " 8 home wreckers and 8 randy adulterers " picture if the 8 girls were not raped and d 8 men's wives caught them with their husbands, who will be d devils then?...
    They knw they are married men buh they still went out with dem#big smiles( Aristocracy Thinz )
    Wht's d end point of married men hangin out with single ladies?(Ans =SEX) how the sex now occur is left for d 2parties to decide....
    All i will say is "BIGGER DEVILS BULLIED SMALLER DEVILS"#laughing#shikena#gbam

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  39. Without a doubt....the men are nothing but a bunch of "low life" and cowards!! Real men will willingly, confidently cultivate a healthy relationship with the opposite sex and consummate all the niceties and fun that goes with a genuine relationship.

    Love making should be backed by consent. Drugging women to defile them says a lot about who the men are: Cretins and mendicants....if any of them is man enough let them get in touch with me via this medium.

    Real Dude - UK

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  40. Its a great lesson...but it could have been better if the lesson had been learned from the movies you watch each day..

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  41. She went looking for trouble and she found it. If girls stay faithful and do not try to covet what belongs to others, they may stay away from these sort of men and I also wonder what is wrong with the men. Men are supposed to protect women, not use them. It is a pity men have degenerated to these sort of animals, that said, both are to blame. Ladies, stay faithful to your man, please him sexually, do not starve him of sex as punishment nor use sex as a weapon to make demands that way, you have a better chance of keeping him and because you are married doesn't mean you no longer need to look good for your husband. Spinsters, do not try to take what belongs to another woman. Men, look for God and values in your life, it would go a long way in helping you.

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  42. Chaio!she learned a gud lesson...she sud go around now preaching the word of God 2 others like her.."All dat glitters re nt Gold"Yet, some would still have a story 2 tell.

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  43. HMMMM,This is a sad story but i will be happy if ladies can change but they will never change despite the fact that they read this heart touching story,so all i will say to all material girls out there is that they should quit material things but if they do not want to change on material life then they will face the same thing,.The Bible says seek and ye shall find,so if you seek material things then ye shall find pain and sorrow,God first my dear ladies out there.

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  44. Its a lesson for us all. Ladies please be very careful. This new age of social networking comes with its ills. Am really scared of physically meeting people I met online cos of such reports. Let's not be too carried away by "love", lust, money etc. We all know most married men are unfaithful but as a single lady, you should never encourage them. Put them in their place no matter the temptation. Most comments say they do not pity the girl and some blame the men. Let's put it this way, assuming the man was single, I can bet this lady will still fall for him. You can never have it so smoothly! Lasgidi guys for that matter! Babes wise up oh! No man spends a cent on a anyone except its a charity case. Fun, clubbing, cruise, pictures exchange and you still thought he was cool and safe? Did you think his wife didn't know how to make out too? Poor thinking and judgement on tonia's part. Thank God you are alive and well. In this ritual age nigeria you cruising on a boat! Hmmmm. You get mind oh! Thank God your body parts are still intact. Please let's all learn, even for guys too, girls can drug you too and use you so be careful. Life is short. Enjoy it wisely.

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  45. Am sorry guys but am gonna say what I feel...this story might have happened but this particular one was written by a man and it is a figment of his imagination. I am a writer and I know how ladies write, this is written by a man... am so sure about it.
    This however does not mean that there are no lessons to be learnt.

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  46. I am really short of words.....but its indeed a story to tell and a lesson to b learned.....a word is really enough for d wise......

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  48. hahahahahahahahahaha i jst cant stop laffing, u know why ? girls cant seem to learn but u all seem to want to make pple feel pity for u when u dnt feel it for urself, well to me if things like this dnt happen we wouldnt be reading sweet storys like this for maybe reasoning girls to learn that is if there is anything reasonable abt girls as for u girl it serves u right cos u knew the guy was married in the first place but u were trying to see the best out of another mans wife hahahahahahah very funny trying to reap wat u did not sow.hahahahahah ur story is like a comedy keep it up girl if this will continue bringing girls closer to God.

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  49. Lovely story #clapping. I date you and ask you for sex, you said no. I give you money pationately and you kiss me pationately. When I give you what you have neva had"a beach party", you should give me what I've neva had"sex outside marriage". The girl is just selfish and greedy, eat the man's money and deny him pleasure. The man made his intention known to the girl at the first meeting, so it's not a bad treatment afterall. If I should be the man's lawyer. Believe me, there are lots of points to win the case. After all, you were not kidnapped or raped, you enjoyed the sex and got paid...

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  50. It is God that saved you and your friends. ladies should know that all that glitters is not gold. In the name of social networking, loads of bad things are now happening in Nigeria.

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  51. Married or single men, stuffs still happen, life is a lesson. We learn every day, some in a cool way, and some in a Hard way. May GoD forgive us All.

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  52. thumbs up to ndubuisi uche for his comment! Please please please,she got what she deserved. How dare she call him heartless? When she was kissing him before the party she didn't think he he was heartless ba? I can never feel sorry for girls like this because If he didn't rape and humiliate her he would still have carried on with the relationship.

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  53. This whole story might even be a make belief episode, it might not have happen. It might be an idea and a good story line for another Nollywood Movie. Please get the story copywrite before our per second film maker will turn this to film. But then guys, dont get me wrong, I am not totally saying this is not true. There is a lesson to learn in fictions, true life story, comedy, horror, sci-fi, science victions, comedy, classic in life, a lesson must be learnt. I believe all of us that had read this story had one or two lessons to learn. For you girls that love riches and material wealth more than anything, think about what could happen to you if you dont change your life style. For you men either married or unmarried that belief you can use your money to molest a living soul, remember we have a greater judge, who is above, He sees everything done publicly and secretly and He will judge you. To Chythia and the 7 girls, I congratulate you that you did not end in the fish belly. Please go for real prayers and santifications for only God knows what evil acts these men had carried out. May God bless you all.

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  54. The girls should charge the guys to court for rape if they can stand the humiliation. And Tonia should implore others to change their way as it takes two to tango. It wouldn't have happened if you guys weren't greedy.

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  56. I'm not surprised at all though this is something I can never do to any girl. I think both parties are at fault. If the said men can only have sex with them & snap them while naked (for blackmail purposes I guess) without any unusual thing (ritual intention), then the whole thing doesn't make sense! They had the money to have fun with the girls & eventually get laid! As for the girls, this is exactly what they wanted: 'fun' but they were so carried away by richies such that they couldn't even read inbetween the lines! What a shame. All these girls know very well the implication of hanging out with married men but they still go ahead while so many single guys with genuine intentions for them are out there hopeless or heart-broken. This is indeed a sad case but the men are to be blamed the more. If its only sex, they can pay for and get it without this blackail issue and drugging! Girls should investigate ahead and outside of what they see just in case...you never can tell you know. The victim learnt her lesson the hard way and she should thank God she wasn't used for rituals. Wives please do whatever it takes to keep your husbands at home please.

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